35 years later, the old couple met their ＂dead＂ son and searched hard for years after hearing that they had been stolen.
Under the guidance of the old couple, when the reporter drove for more than an hour to the farm operated by Ge Liang, he found that the door was closed. Photo by liu ling
Zhongxin. com, Nanjing, September 13th (Reporter liu ling) "When I saw him at first sight, my head was ‘ Hum ’ 1, received! " On the morning of the 13th, Ms. Ding Qiaorong from Shuyang County, Jiangsu Province told the reporter of Zhongxin.com that she gave birth to a pair of twin sons 35 years ago. At that time, the doctor said that the younger son was "spoiled" (died). I didn’t expect to meet a man who looks almost the same as her eldest son in the same ward not long ago. Although it was only the first time to meet, she had no doubt that this man was the youngest son who had been separated for many years.
Why are Ding Qiaorong and her husband Yu Guanghui so sure that this man is the lost youngest son? Yu Guanghui said that his eyebrows and eyes are too similar to himself, and even the moles on his nose are exactly the same as those of his eldest son.
"Bao’s adult can only give up the child."
Things have to start from the evening of August 30 of the lunar calendar 35 years ago.
That evening, Ding Qiaorong, who was pregnant with twins, felt unwell and went to a hospital in Shuyang County for labor.
"About 8 o’clock, the eldest son was born. The doctor told me it was a son and told me to keep trying. There was another one inside. " Ding Qiaorong told reporters that his consciousness was still clear at that time, and he also told the doctor that there was a son in his stomach, which had been checked long ago, and Ding Qiaorong then fainted.
A few hours later, after Ding Qiaorong woke up, he realized that he had a massive hemorrhage when he gave birth to the "little second son", and shock led to coma. What saddens her even more is that "the younger son is gone."
"The people in the hospital asked her mother-in-law for 4 yuan money to deal with ‘ The younger son ’ Two yuan to buy ‘ Pubao ’ (Shroud), two yuan for labor. " Yu Guanghui introduced that he was still working in other places at that time, and he didn’t hear about it until he got home three days later. "The doctor said that my daughter-in-law was bleeding heavily. In order to keep an adult, I could only give up my child."
Yu Guanghui recalled that every time I think about this, my mother regrets it. At that time, Yu Guanghui, who didn’t see the child’s body, always had some doubts about it.
But Yu Guanghui, who has no clue, can only choose to believe the hospital’s statement and bury his doubts in his heart. "I have always felt that my ‘ The younger son ’ Not dying, this may be a kind of concern for the father and son. "
"Don’t look for it, grandpa has already taken him to Shanghai."
One day in 1988, one of Yu Guanghui’s nephews was drinking with some friends in guandun. In the middle of the wine, a friend who lives in the East Pass of Shuyang said that a family nearby adopted a boy from guandun. "It is said that it was one of the twins and was born to a woman named Ding."
The East Pass of Shuyang County is more than 30 miles away from guandun. Is his lost son so close? Yu Guanghui, who got the news, vowed to find his son.
"In that year, I went to the East Pass every day, turning from alley to alley." Yu Guanghui said that more than 30 miles now seems not too far away, but at that time, there were no bicycles, and it took more than an hour to walk.
Yu Guanghui recalled that he often went to look for his son with a piece of dry cake. When he was thirsty, he went to his fellow villagers’ home to beg for saliva. He was often reprimanded for "how can he come out begging at a young age and be lazy?"
"I didn’t go out to work in those years, and I have been looking for the trace of my son. I basically go back and forth from guandun to Dongguankou every day." Yu Guanghui told the reporter of Zhongxin. com that he did not dare to look for it publicly, for fear of being beaten. He could only ask people and talk.
In this way, Yu Guanghui inquired for several years and failed to find a trace of his son. A local woman felt sorry for him and told him, "Don’t look for him. Their family knew you were looking for him. The grandfather of the child had already taken the child to Shanghai, and there was no one at home."
With the passage of time, Yu Guanghui slowly broke his mind and went to Nanjing with his eldest son’s family to open a restaurant and lived in Nanjing. Because he missed his "lost" little son for a long time, he couldn’t sleep all night. "I can smoke two packs of cigarettes every night, and my blood pressure is very high."
At first glance, this is my "little second son"
Things turned around on the fourth day of the first month after the Spring Festival in 2016. Ding Qiaorong, who suffered from kidney calculi, returned from Nanjing to a hospital in Shuyang County for treatment.
Ding Qiaorong, who just entered the ward, was blinded. What caught her eye was a man who was almost exactly the same as her eldest son. In a trance, she even thought that her eldest son had returned from Nanjing.
Holding back the trembling, Ding Qiaorong quietly asked the patients around him to know that this man had come to deliver food for his injured daughter-in-law, but he really came to support him. Ding Qiaorong called his wife Yu Guanghui with tears. When Yu Guanghui rushed to the hospital to see this young man, he immediately concluded that this man must be his "second child".
Looking at the man who is almost the mirror image of his eldest son, and it is likely to be his long-lost youngest son, Ding Qiaorong tried to recognize it, but he didn’t dare to recognize it, tossing and turning all night.
Yu Guanghui inquired in many ways and learned that the man’s name was Ge Liang (a pseudonym), and Ge Liang admitted that he was adopted. However, it is unclear how the younger son of Yu Guanghui and his wife died in the hospital was adopted. This kind of "adoption" has made Yu Guanghui and his wife suffer for 35 years.
Yu Guanghui said that after many investigations, there was a local saying that Ge Liang’s adoptive parents also had a boy, but the boy was in poor health. Liang Xu’s adoptive parents believed in the superstition that another boy could be happy, so they found someone to ‘ Xiaoer ’ It was stolen.
"I can treat you as filial parents, but I can’t do paternity test."
Knowing what happened to Yu Guanghui and Ding Qiaorong over the years, Ge Liang agreed to test DNA to confirm his identity, but the next day, he changed his mind.
"He said that he has adapted to the current life and can no longer make his family suffer, but he can treat us as filial as parents." Yu Guanghui doesn’t understand that children are the pride of parents, but Ge Liang can’t understand their pain of losing their children for more than 30 years.
On the morning of the 13th, under the guidance of Yu Guanghui and his wife, when the reporter drove for more than an hour to the farm operated by Ge Liang, he found that the gate was closed and a man in a blue shirt left in a hurry on an electric car. Yu Guanghui said that the man who left was Ge Liang.
A man surnamed Zhang who claimed to be Ge Liang’s partner told reporters that Ge Liang is now under too much pressure to be interviewed. At the request of the reporter, the man called Ge Liang several times to communicate, but he never came forward.
"I don’t understand where his pressure comes from. I won’t pursue the responsibility of the hospital in those days, nor will I ask him to give me a pension. I just want to know that my son is still alive." Ding Qiaorong said that on the one hand, Ge Liang did not agree to the paternity test, but also said that he would treat himself like his own parents. "Things are like falling into a dead end, but how can we be content?"
On the afternoon of the 13th, the reporter called Ge Liang several times. As of press time, no one answered. Regarding the progress of this matter, the reporter of Zhongxin. com will continue to pay attention. (End)